I believe that everyone has a right to their own pursuit of happiness (hoping that it doesn’t hurt or impede others from pursuing and achieving their own in the process). This is why I never tell anyone how to live their life. If you ask for my advice, I give it. But understand that it is just that: advice. Heed or dismiss, that’s on you. My word ain’t the gospel and I never claim it to be.
Good, bad or questionable, we all have our dreams, desires, habits, choices and actions. I’ve seen some choices that have made me nod in admiration, while others have made me cringe. But judging? That’s not my thing. That’s not for me to do and not for you to worry about. You live and die by the doors you yourself have opened.
Me personally, I live by my own set of rules. I don’t drink and still have never smoked or tried drugs. Don’t plan to either. I think I’ve done enough damage to my body over the past 50 years with the twinkies.
I don’t initiate violence (key word: initiate) but I don’t run from anyone. I don’t slander and I don’t hate anyone. At least not anymore – lol.
I don’t apologize for my words or my actions and I don’t regret my decisions. If I succeed, I breathe a sigh of relief and satisfaction. If I fail, I take it as a life lesson and use that experience to mold my next plan of action.
But I do make my decisions with confidence, never looking back or second-guessing myself. And while some are impromptu, others are strategically constructed. Just know that when I make my move, there’s no stutter-stepping. Hence the scars, burns and re-fused bones.
And I never blame others for the outcome. I know what I did and you better believe I had a damn good time doing it!
What I’m trying to say is that life is short. Waaaaaay too short. Do you and have fun doing it. I just hope that it’s not so much fun that people still bring it up on social media, 30 years later. Yeah, people have seen me do some epic things. Many are hilarious memories for all, while some are permanently documented in court records. Oh well…
Anyway, no matter what it is you do, I can only pray that you be safe in your adventures.
Focus on family, friends and fun — and never forget to carry God with you, wherever you go.
…and don’t forget to carry your camera &/or video recorder because memories are magic.
But don’t forget, that’s just my advice, albeit unsolicited.
God bless you, my friends. Luvyalot
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You nailed that one brother!!! I agree 💯% love ya!!!
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Glad you found it worth your while, my brother. Love you back and thanks for reading!
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Loved it Kenny. Cute and short and deep. What you said is true, enjoy every moment whatever your choices and evolve into a better person with every experience-whatever it may be and be thankful for all the little and big things.
Been a while since I delved into your blog. We had some friends visiting for a week from Canada and they left last Sunday. Had a wonderful time going to the river front area. Any plans for the long weekend? We are going to Chicago on my daughter’s suggestion.
Have a great weekend Kenny.
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Oh my, I thought I had answered all comments. I didn’t realize I missed this one. You know, it’s funny. I write such lengthy posts that when I share something of this length, some consider it short. Theory of Relativity in action again. Still, there are those who would tell me that THIS is too long. I’m so glad an old friend once advised that I write what I want to write and leave it to my readers to decide what they want to read. Makes good sense.
Anyway, as you already know, I’ve lived a very eventful and unapologetic life, and I’m happy that I did. I’ve met so many people that have told me how much they regret worrying about what others might have thought and as a result, missed their opportunity. Hey, another thought for a blog! Maybe I’ll consider it a sequel to this one.
I’m glad you got some time with your friends. That is absolutely a must. I didn’t make it to Chicago because of my personal responsibilities and other projects, but we might make it in the fall. So much opn my plate. We also have to make it to Maryland for Thanksgiving.
Don’t worry. New blog posts are coming soon. But as you’ve already seen, there are 300+ posts already readily accessible.
Hope you enjoyed your summer and as always, I thank you for reading!
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